
This week’s Style Counsel is guest posted by the fabulous That’s Not My Age.
Reader query:
I need to find an outfit for a wedding next month. I’m 46, haven’t been to an all-day wedding in years and am not sure what’s appropriate. The wedding’s in the north of Scotland so the weather could be quite cold. It’s a church service and then a reception in a hotel.
That’s Not My Age advises:
Personally, I believe that on special occasions it’s best to look like yourself, but on a good day – so don’t go overboard with frills or fancy clothes that’ll get shoved to the back of the wardrobe and never seen again, buy something that’s really you.
Choose versatile styles that can be worn on other occasions – get your money’s worth! So, for weddings, head straight for LK Bennett and Hobbs, for good quality, elegant clothes that are made to last and won’t end up in the local charity shop six months down the line.
And, I’m not a meteorologist but I’d guess it’s going to be chilly in northern Scotland in October. So, a wool jacket or coat is essential. And as the fashion world has gone Mad Men mad, opt for something with a fifties-inspired feel. Colour always looks fabulous, warms a pale/blue with cold complexion and stands out in the photos.
Though having said that, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with black. Just don’t go head-to-toe or the other guests will think you’re at the wrong ceremony.
Of course you’ll need a gorgeous frock – either a shift dress or a full-skirted retro style, both key buys this season – that can be unleashed when it’s time to party. A pair of platform courts or kitten heels should take you from day to evening without too much bother, but it’s wise to take a pair of ballet flats just in case.
Oh and a final word on hats. Personally, I don’t believe that you have to wear one to a wedding these days, they can look a bit mother-of-the-bride so unless there’s a specific dress code, I’d give the headgear a miss. Why not go for a totally fifties look and spend the cash on a classy up-do instead?
Outfit 1
Team a gorgeous floral print shift with a green wool jacket and neutral suede courts. If it’s chilly, slip an elegant camel coat over the top.




Silk dress and suede platforms: LK Bennett / Manor jacket: Hobbs / Camel wrap coat: Hobbs
Outfit 2
Go fabulously fifties with a neat jacket and full-skirted frock. Kitten heels and a ladylike handbag are the perfect accessories – and if you need an extra layer, try this lovely purple coat on for size.





Prom dress: Marks & Spencer (available October) / Silk bolero jacket, kitten heel shoe and black leather handbag: LK Bennett / Coat: Monsoon
Outfit 3
For a more minimal look, this striking black and camel coat is guaranteed to keep you so warm you’ll want to wear it all winter long. Pair it with a classic camel shift then just add some eye-catching accessories to complete the look.




Ben de Lisi at Principles coat: Debenhams / Camel wool shift and animal print court: both Hobbs / Bead and leather necklace: Wallis
And don’t forget…

Silk corsage pumps: Boden
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A huge thank you to That’s Not My Age for providing such great advice – and finding those gorgeous leopard platforms! Outfit 3 is definitely my favourite.
Let me know which outfit you like best.
xx
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